That's
what grandparents are for -- fun and delicious food. What they served
you was a Viet hot pot called "lau" with a mam nem
dipping sauce. (You're sure it was mam ruoc, which is made of
shrimp? Mam nem is made of fish and is usually made in to the
sauce with pineapple).
The biggest
obstacle is getting the set up for the communal dipping at the table.
You can use an electric burner on which you set a low, wide-mouth pot.
(I bought one for about $15 at Sears!) Or, there's the butane sort of
burner sold at Asian markets. You can also use an electric skillet.
After you
have the cooking implement, get together the following:
1) What
you're going to dip. Things should be thinly sliced and arranged
on platters ahead of time. Cover them with plastic and keep refrigerated.
Take them out about 15 minutes before you're going to serve so that
things come to room temp.
2) Your
rice paper, lettuce leaves (red/green leaf or butter lettuce), and fresh
herbs (mint, cilantro, and any other Viet
herbs you can get your hands on!). Like the stuff you want to
dip, these items should be prepped ahead too. It's a little hard with
the banh trang because ideally, you'd be dipping them as you go along.
Some people dip them ahead of time and arrange them in an overlapping
fashion on a plate. They may stick and tear but they're already softened!
3)
Your dipping sauce. In general, put some bottled mam nem in a small
saucepan and to it, add water, sugar and some chopped sweet pineapple;
fresh pineapple is best, though in a pinch you can use canned (drain
and discard the liquid). Mam nem is sold in slender small bottles
at Southeast Asian markets. Let's say you're preparing for four people.
Try 1 cup of water, 2 tablespoons of mam nem, 1 teaspoon sugar and 1/2
cup chopped pineapple. Bring it to a simmer and taste. Adjust the flavors
so that the sauce is a little fishy, pungent and sweet. Let it cool
before serving. When serving, add a few slices of chilies if you want
heat.
I'm not
familiar with this kind of dipping sauce made with mam ruoc.
If you like that, ask your grandparents what they did to prepare it.
3) The
poaching liquid can be just a light stock; make your own or open
a can of Swanson's and thin it out with water (1 canned stock: 2 parts
water). Maybe your grandparents used beer, vinegar, water some salt?
It doesn't have to be a major/complex thing because the stuff that you
put in there will add their flavors to create a tasty broth. If you
like what they prepared, ask them for their version. It varies from
cook to cook.
For example,
traditionally, vinegar is used for thit bo nhung dam (which is basically
a lau devoted to beef; the same banh trang, rau song/rau thom [herbs],
mam nem deal applies). I imagine that your grandparents added some
light beer because they were thinking of the perfumes and flavor of
a rice wine in the stock. I'm actually very curious about this -- as
well as the use of mam ruoc for the dipping sauce. When you find out,
let me know!
So, that's
basically it. Once you get these things in order, set up the table with
your heated pot and pour in your stock. Get it to a simmer and settle
down to dip, wrap and eat.
This is
the kind of meal that takes lots of organization at the front end. Once
you have things ready, diners cook their meal themselves. Makes me hungry...
Let me
know if you have any other questions,
Andrea